LOOKING for MARLA
The Story of a Fish's Transition
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Looking for Marla follows the tale of a curious clownfish in transition as they find their way through fatherhood, and into motherhood. In wild clownfish populations, a male will transition into the role of the dominant female of the community when the female of their community is removed.This biological fact is omitted from the iconic movie Finding Nemo and is a story that our book Looking for Marla helps to share and correct. Looking for Marla hopes to inspire readers of all ages on their own journey of gender expression and self-exploration, while they discover the diversity of parental care strategies in the underwater world!
A portion of the book's proceeds were donated to the Diversity Center of Santa Cruz, to support diverse communities in Santa Cruz & Watsonville counties.
100% of our profits
in June 2020 went to the Transgender District SF to protect and serve the Black Trans Community, whose civil rights and public health are increasingly threatened under new legislation amidst a global pandemic.
Marla raises $4.5K!
Thank you for your contributions! Thanks to your generous donations, Marla is printed and on its way to you in the form of a fun launch party on
November 15th at the Santa Cruz Museum of Art & History!
We will be sharing the BILINGUAL version of the book and there will be performances, facepainting, brainstorming on the meaning of parenthood, and activities for all ages! Join us!
Looking for Marla Kickstarter Launch!
LOOKING for MARLA
The Story of a Fish's Transition
This book is for educators, parents, youth, and anyone wanting to learn about sex and gender diversity in nature and gender pronouns in a fun way!
Looking for Marla tells the tale of a curious clownfish in transition as they find their way through fatherhood, and into motherhood! As readers follow along through playful and punny rhymes, they encounter a diverse cast of friendly marine creatures, each with a unique story to tell and a jewel of wisdom. Looking for Marla hopes to inspire readers of all ages on their own journey of gender expression and self-exploration, while they discover the diversity of parental care strategies in the underwater world.
Please contact us if you would like to stock these books at your institution: LookingForMarlaBook@gmail.com
Testimonials in support of Looking for Marla
"Looking for Marla takes you on an undersea discovery journey through the surprisingly diverse expressions of gender and sexual identity among marine creatures. I have taught sexuality education classes for ages ranging from kindergarten to senior high school, and this wonderfully imaginative book will be a precious addition to the curriculum. Little kids will marvel at the beautiful illustrations and older youths will appreciate the whimsical rhyming text. For all, the variety of parenting styles and gender expressions depicted in these pages are sure to expand their understanding of the many ways to be human. May they find their own inner Marla."
- François Bar, Ph.D. | Our Whole Lives Sexuality Education facilitator | Professor of Communication, USC Annenberg Innovation Lab
"Looking for Marla beautifully illustrates how art can help to communicate scientific information and break down social stereotypes. We at the Norris Center for Natural History are proud to have supported this creative and outstanding book."
- Karen Holl, Ph.D. | Professor of Environmental Studies, UC Santa Cruz | Faculty Director, Norris Center for Natural History.
"Looking for Marla is joyful, beautiful and informative. If you are curious about: gender identity, the ocean, its inhabitants or parenting then this is the book for you! This is revelatory reading at its best."
- Beth Rendeiro, M.Ed | Co-founder, More Than Sex Ed. | Trainer, Our Whole Lives, Lifespan Human Sexuality curricula | Educator, UCLA Lab School
"Looking for Marla speaks for the often overlooked and misunderstood ocean creatures. With gorgeous illustrations and unforgettable facts, this story will warm the hearts of those willing to undertake a new perspective on our underwater world."
- Roxanne Beltran, Ph.D. | Assistant Professor, UC Santa Cruz | Children's Book Author
Marla raised $4.5K!
Motivation for Looking for Marla
In wild clownfish populations, a male member will transition into the role of the dominant female of the community when the female of their family is removed, in a process called sequential hermaphroditism. This biological fact is omitted from the iconic movie Finding Nemo and is a story that our book Looking for Marla helps to share and correct.
People may not be aware of the truly vast diversity of sex and gender expression and parental care strategies which occurs in the natural world. The creators of Looking for Marla have observed that these stories, our stories, are often grossly misrepresented or altogether excluded from popular media of today. Thus, we believe that the sharing of these narratives is absolutely necessary and long overdue.We hope that you enjoy learning about the ways in which animals of the sea change between sexes and showcase diverse gender roles in their ecosystems.
The creators of Looking for Marla worked with the Diversity Center Youth Groups of Santa Cruz and Watsonville to develop the story. We are happy to share their story to uplift the voices of Queer and Trans youth. Our book draws attention to gender pronoun usage and models what pronouns are and how to use them. We hope that this book will provide support and solidarity for those readers whose stories are so often left untold.
In case you wanted to know a little bit more about who we are and how we got here, the creators of Looking for Marla each wrote about their personal journey to this project, what their hopes and intentions are for it’s impact, and what role they played in creating it.
Sneak peek at some of the scenes in the book: